Self esteem saved my life

A bitch can’t tell me shit!

I started watching Sex and the City recently and so far I identify most with Charlotte and Miranda. But there’s something about the dynamic between Carrie and Miranda that bugged me. I realized that Miranda allows Carrie to play in her face wayyyyy too much and I remember when I used to be that way. I deadass used to let nothing ass bitches talk to me crazy. I’m so grateful to have developed self esteem and self respect. I cannot imagine where I would be in life if I stayed connected to most of the people I used to surround myself with and accepted the treatment I received. It irks me because Miranda is all that and a bag of chips and everyone can see that except for her. That is dangerous and attracts terrible people. Carrie seems a little too eager to keep Miranda “in her place.” I hope that as this series goes on, Miranda comes to her senses because they got her fucked up!!! Also she’s such a pretty girl, I feel like the showrunners and wardrobe are gaslighting me because I cannot with some of these styling choices. The androgynous styling and jewel tones on her are EVERYTHING!!! I hope that the Miranda’s of the world learn to truly like themselves and find community that values them. I hope they raise their standards for what is acceptable and I wish self obsession for all of them!

I’ve always been that bitch. I’m so grateful to KNOW that I’m that bitch! I’m 27, I’m fine as fuck, I live in NYC, I’m a successful businesswoman and I have no kids. The life I’m creating for myself, my beauty, my mind, my style….a bitch could neverrrrrr.